Wednesday 27 October 2021

Times Do Change Things

It has been so long since the last time I updated this blog. Feel like writing in English tonight. So, happy reading my nightly thoughts. My mind at this very moment, is thinking about how times do change things.

As some of you may know, I have been married for more than 6 years! Blogging and Facebooking has really been in my life this long. Yes, remember how I met him? Online, guys. Omg! All the turbulences, accidents, incidents, unexpected events, hurtful words, painful heart breaks, buckets of tears, days and nights of crying, it is a wonder, how my partner and I are still going on strong. It is magical. Not fairytale kind of magic, but it is.

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Times do change things. There are so many things that I have never thought I would be, I am now. I never thought I would not have even a pair of jeans. I never thought I would be kind of obsessed with doing the dishes. I never thought food stuff arranged not showing their brand names in the fridge would bother me. I never thought I am capable of having 2 sons. I never thought I can do so many things, but I actually can. I never thought I would be so many things, now I am. How 'adopt and adapt' finally becomes crucial in our life. 

When I was younger, I told people here and there about my feelings, my heart. My naive self thought it might solve the problems. My friends might help. Deep inside, I wish for backups. I wish for a knight in shining armour to swing his sword and vanish my problems. I wish I can just stand behind him or her, while he or she is settling the problems for me, BUT TRUST ME. That will NEVER be the case. In fact, it might worsen things up. We might end up embarrass ourselves. Unknowingly, there might be people who are laughing at your back. Your knight in shining armour, is the one you are conflicting with. And you are his.

How? Go figure. Perhaps, we forget good times also happen. When he proposed. When he gives you two Panadol tablets and that sticky thing to stick to your temple when you get headache. When he cooks for you when you say you are hungry. When he buys you gifts. When he takes care of your children for you to rest and sleep. When he massages your sore feet. When he drives so far to take you for your dream vacation. Remember? For sure. There are more good times when compared to bad ones. It is just that we are always reminded of the bad things. Yes, our brain, our mind is tricky like that.

Now, I know I've changed. Why? Coz I know, some things, just don't happen the way we expect, the way we want, the way we hope, not even the way we intend them to happen. In my case, I always expect people listening to me whining again and again, to offer help, but no, no favour can be offered when the problems are inside our house, are between two loving souls who are not seeing eye to eye at that moment. Only. Heartbreaks, pains, will dissolve their way. You two, just keep holding hands, never let go. Be kind. Give time. You and your partner are still adjusting having each other in the same room. It will never be easy, but for sure, YOU TWO CAN do it.

Only remember, times do change things. Bad times, will go. Good times, are coming. Work for them. Pray for them. Tawakkal to Allah. You two have problems. You two solve them. Apparently, it takes two to tango. Cooperate because you are now partners for life. You are now parents to your children. Literally NOBODY else, will help, but You.
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Thursday 24 December 2020

How To Be Sincere In Life

How To Be Sincere In Life | It is never easy to be sincere. Even if we are, we will never know the our level of sincerity. At what level will we consider ourselves to be sincere? At what level will we consider others who are not? Can you? Don't have to answer because I am also a human. I know. :)

Human beings lie for so many things. Most of the times, it is all done for selfish reasons. There are also times that we lie to avoid hurting our beloved people and care for our safety. That is how White Lies comes in the frame.

Be Sincere. It Is Always Better.


Just my 2 sons sleeping coz I don't have other pictures that depict honesty better than Children.

As difficult as it sounds, being sincere is always the best answer. Lies is easy. But, it will be continuous, exhausting. However, everything can be worked on. We can work on increasing our sincerity. Even we don't know the level, we can sense when it increases, right? :)

Set The Mind

Honesty is always the best policy! The first thing to do to be sincere is to speak the truth. Whatever it is, no lies should come out from our mouth. Always always remember that.

Always look at the bright side

Truth may hurt at first, but bad things will subside. Good things are on their way. The Sun will always shine in the morning after setting at night. Live in the present. That is how happiness is found.


One Lie Leads to Another


Remember. Things had happened. There is nothing we can do to change the past. Lies is a burden that is too heavy to shoulder. The longer, the more hurtful they become. Be realistic. Lying is exhausting. You don't want to be exhausted that started from a mere lie.

Allah Has Determined Everything

Yup, Allah has the key to every movement in life. Hold strong to that. Remember the rewards of making Rasulullah SAW as the ultimate Idol. If He was honest, we must be honest. All the hardships from honestly will be a treasure in the Here After. Insya Allah.

Honesty will always be the best way to live our life. Nothing good comes from bad things including lies and hypocrisy.

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Thursday 9 November 2017

How To Look Slimmer With Fashion

How To Look Slimmer With Fashion | It is undeniable that we live day by day to fulfill our own expectations, but we cannot deny that we will feel better when we also live up to others' too. Fulfilling both will make us feel the best which everyone deserves at all times as it will help boost confidence level. One of the ways to feel the best is to use fashion right. So, how is the right way to wear fashion right?

The right outfit is the right fashion. Usually, we will feel better when we wear the right fit of our clothes. When I said better, I mean slimmer. For women, they will do anything to look slimmer and fashion is one of the major factors that determines how they look. Fashion, when worn right, definitely can make us look smaller than our actual size.

How to manipulate fashion to look slimmer

1. Use darker colours


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First thing first, we have to choose the right colour to appear smaller than what we actually are. Darker colours can help hide the excess fat especially around the belly and our hip. The safest option will be black but don't restrict to just this one colour to avoid us being dull at all time. We can also choose other dark colours such as blue black, dark green, dark purple and maroon.

2. Wear the right size

Size is something we have to really choose right so that we do not look bigger than our actual size. If you fit M, choose M rather than S or L. A much smaller or much bigger size of clothes that we put on will make us look big. Smaller ones will highlight the parts that we want to hide and bigger ones will make us look shabby and of course, BIG.

3. Put on the right materials

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To appear thinner, we should also use the right materials. Go for lightweight soft materials rather than heavy or body hugging one. Heavy materials like denim  can make us look bigger as it is very hard to flow on our body the right way. Avoid the use of spandex and lycra materials too because these two might accentuate the bigger parts of our body. Therefore, go for chiffon or crepe for our outfits.

4. Choose the right pattern

How To Appear Slimmer With Fashion, how to look slimmer


Do know that the patterns also play major role on how we look in our everyday wear. To appear thinner, choose vertical patterns rather than horizontal. Do not forget that the lines should not be too thick also. If you are more to flowery type, choose small flowery patterns rather than big ones. Both preferred patterns will make us look thinner by manipulating human's optical illusion.

5. Pick the right accessories


Choose a longer necklace, perhaps until slightly lower than our chess area to help elongate your bodice for a slimmer effect. For bracelet, use one that is slightly larger than your wrist. If you want to wear a belt, avoid the thick ones. Go for the thin ones to make waist look smaller. Do not forget to use bright colours for the accessories so that people will be focussing on them rather than our body.

These 5 tips to appear thinner are really easy to follow rather than the diet tips, right? Therefore, try them. You will feel the difference. I hope these 5 fashion tips will help you with your everyday look. Till next article guys. Toodles!

Monday 12 June 2017

I Am Officially A Teacher!

Wowww!!! It has been so long since I last update my English blog. I still love you and all but it is just my life requires me to write more in Malay. Perhaps, after this, I will update more here and I really need to brush on my English. It is getting rusty already.

Most of the time before being posted to my current school, I write for my boss' blog. Yes, I have been working for him even before I become a teacher. Oh yes, I was posted to SK Seri Maamor, Semerah and currently am an English teacher. What a journey. I graduated last year, currently living with my beloved husband in Muar. No more LDR for us.

My husband's sacrifice is quite huge in my eyes. He moved with me from Tangkak to Muar even though he now has to commute Muar-Tangkak-Muar everyday for work. Our previous house only took 5 minutes from his school. Our current house takes 40 to 50 minutes to his school and mine! It means the budget for petrol has increased a lot. Thank you so much husband!

I am now waiting to get my first salary. Once I get it, I want to go to Perodua service center to do some maintenance of my care and settle the road tax. The remaining, I will save for akikah event. Yes, I am pregnant for my son now. Can barely wait for his to get out of my tummy and see his face for the first time. #excitedmommode Hehe.

I guess, enough for today. Plain and bland I know. Bai
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Sunday 9 October 2016

Jordan, Young Entrepreneur at ShopPerle.Co

Jordan, Young Entrepreneur at ShopPerle.Co | This is truly inspiring for me. At my age, I am still struggling with my degree in TESL and young Jordan has come up with his own online shop. He is incredible!

Jordan, Young Entrepreneur at ShopPerle.Co


17 year old prodigy and entrepreneur Jordan is no stranger to hard work, hailing from Lansing, Michigan, he is already a force to be reckoned with in the fashion and music industries.
Managing several artists and multiple large social media accounts, as well as running a successful business, a luxury online jewelry and accessories brand, www.ShopPerle.co, Jordan loves the business field, is interested in creating Apps/App Design and is curating good vibes only.

Jordan, Young Entrepreneur at ShopPerle.Co

Check out www.ShopPerle.co, for a delicious selection of unisex jewelry and accessories and must haves for the metro generation. Adorn yourself with gorgeous watches, cool necklaces, fabulous braceletets and cute accessories at affordable prices.

Here are some of the items sold with reasonable price on ShopPerle.Co:

eiffel tower necklace, Jordan, Young Entrepreneur at ShopPerle.Co
Eiffel Tower Necklace

elephant watch, Jordan, Young Entrepreneur at ShopPerle.Co
Elephant Watch

pink glitter iphone 6 case, Jordan, Young Entrepreneur at ShopPerle.Co
Pink Glitter iPhone 6 Case

Check these out:
www.twitter.com/ JordanMcCall

Dont forget because you will not regret. :D
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