5 Things Not To Talk About With Your Girlfriend

5 Things Not To Talk About With Your Girlfriend | In general, boyfriends should never talk about physical appearance with their girlfriends. Physical appearance is a very sensitive thing and girls will never be at ease knowing that their boyfriends want her to appear differently. 

Even after her boyfriend asks her to wear baju kurung instead of jeans and tshirts, it is really disturbing. Even though you don't mean it negatively, your girlfriend will think completely the opposite. Even though you just want her to look better in your eyes, not that they are actually ugly, she will not think as you do. Trust me as I am a girl and I know how girls think.

Have you listened to the song Rude by Magic?

1. Her weight

Her weight is the last thing that you wanna talk to your girlfriend. Even when her weight is a little bit more than other girls especially the one they feel threatened with, she will feel so bad as if it is the end of the world. 

She will not think that you will accept her as she is but rather, she will keep worrying that you will go to a skinnier girl. Never ask your girlfriend her body weight as her weight will never be 'light' enough. 

I am overweight. I know.- Sincerely, Girls.

2. Her skin colour

As a girl, she is quite obsessed of having flawless facial skin, which others own and she thinks she doesn't. When a girl does not have the skin colour they've been wanting, even though what they have is the most perfect for her, it hurts her so much. 

For example, Asian girls are dying to have fair, flawless skin but what we usually have is a darker skin tone. It is actually the best colour we could ever have as we need darker skin for our skin protection under the hot sun, but nothing is enough for us. We always demand for more. Forgive us.

Read this love poem- Dear Sweet Stranger. It is just sooo cute! :D

Lighter skin only after editing. Sad. :'(

3. Her body figure

Not only her body weight, her body figure is also something that you should avoid talking about with your girlfriend. Perhaps, girls are so much influenced by skinny supermodels but she tends to forget that it is their job to take care of their physical appearance, which is not hers. 

Not everyone has the same job as the supermodels I guess. Actually, I have this one girl friend who I think really has a voluptuous body, but is still not satisfied with her body figure. You don't have to crack your head thinking of the reasons because I myself as a girl don't know the answer. Kih3

Not at all a supermodel's body figure but someone will love me as I am. It is 'you'.

4. Her height

Another obsession of a girl is her height. Influenced by beautiful, skinny, tall supermodels and actresses shown on television, girls tend to dream of having tall lanky body which they hardly get, especially for Asian girls, like me. It will be worse when you are so tall and she feels so timid when standing beside you. So, just accept her as she is and lower your head guys. ;)

Mujagirl is shorter than her younger sister. Is that a problem? :'(

5. Other girls' perfection

The last but not least, DON'T talk about other girls' perfection forever! Don't even let it slip through your lips. Even when you really have the words on your tongue, make them stumble to pieces before getting out of your mouth! Or else, you are actually digging your own tomb and your relationship will be at the tip of a gun!

She is more beautiful than me!!! :'(

As I am saying all these things, it is not that you cannot work on some things that you want from your girlfriend. I know that some things are better for them as no human is perfect in this world. It is just that, you might want to adjust here and there on how you want to convey your messages. 

Remember the Sandwich theory? It might be useful for you when dealing with your girlfriends. Think of how to win your girl's heart! :D

After all, you know your girlfriend the best. No one should ever understand her more than you do. Understand her and you will know how to handle her. It is not easy and it will never be, but do not give up because the result is worth struggling for. 

Her love for you will be the most precious thing and I am sure she is willing to do anything and everything for you. You just have to find the right 'key' to her heart.

I wish you good luck! :D

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How Shopping Can Be Some Kind Of Therapy For Girls

Hye readers. Do I have readers? Ahaks! Long time no see you here. Actually, I am now developing my feminine side so that people will treat me in a more feminine way. Yeah, people usually treat me in a more masculine way which I dont really prefer.

So, I go shopping. People say that girls like to go shopping so much, which I do not really like, but I gave it a try. At first, it was tiring. Yes, very tiring for a beginner shopper. As time goes on, I feel that I can do this shopping thing and I now realize why girls love to buy a lot of stuff. 

It is because shopping can be some kind of therapy for us!

We Can Be What We Actually Are In Life

Most of the time, girls are forced to be polite and graceful. It is not that we want to go against what society wants us to be but we really need some time for us to be what we actually are. So, shopping time is the time. We can choose what we love, we can give opinions on things, we can talk to our friends, and the most important thing is, we can be ourselves!

Makes Us Forget Our Tension and All The Pressure

As time goes on, girls's responsibility is rising from day to day. We do not only cook in the kitchen, but we also work in the office. Our duty is divided into many including as a daughter, wife, and others. Everything causes pressure and shopping is the time we spend to forget our tension and release the pressure for a short period of time, in hope that we will all be refreshed after that.

Be Happy With What We See and Buy

Girls just love to see beautiful things and they are so much inclined to own them. So, they buy things. As they walk along the shops, they will be so free and relieved to have some time for themselves. Shopping time is the time girls spend to pleasure their eyes. Girls smile to beautiful colorful things and as a normal person, we love things that create smiles on our face. 

Walking Is Good For Health As It Moves Our Body

People always say they eat when they are stressed out, but it is never good to overeat as fat will start to accumulate in our body. We never want that! Beautiful women go shopping because they know stressing time is the time to chill while burning our fat. Walking is good for our health and it is a good exercise to form a beautiful body line. It seems like a small thing, but the effect is amazing!

Time To Spend Quality Time With Beloved People

With life spent at home and work, living for other people, we can see how loving a girl is. Girls love with all their heart when they love and they would love to spend some quality time with their beloved people. In that case, girls like to use their shopping time to spend time with their beloved people. After shopping is the time that they eat together and have a chat.

See how shopping time is very useful and beneficial for girls? See why boys should tolerate girls' shopping time? See why girls should have the opportunity to express themselves by having shopping time? See why shopping time is important for girls? 

So guys. Don't ever downgrade your girls just because they love to go shopping. Don't spoil their leisure time with excuses to not spend time with them once a while. Remember, they want to have you by their side because they love you. Have shopping time with your girl and they will really appreciate you! :D

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