2 Types of Loneliness

2 Types of Being Lonely | Assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh. As you all know, i have been married for more than 3 months now and I am still trying to adapt myself to being a wife. It is some kind of transition period for me. It will be a long one as I live far away from my husband.

It is you who will determine the type of loneliness you will get. It depends on you too to get rid of it

We rarely meet and each time we meet it will so short that that adapting process does not seem to complete. Then, we separate. Yes, it is true. The loneliness when being married is far worse than being single and feeling lonely. But, the longing is what makes us still holding on. 

I know and I can feel deep inside that we are getting strong everyday. As well as our love for each other. The longing makes each meeting becomes precious. The longing is what makes we know that we truly love each other. Trust, the most important element here.

Then, we meet again. Each time, we will start anew. It is difficult but, still bearable. Perhaps, that keeps boredom away. It is Allah's way to maintain our relationship. I believe in Him. I know, He will give us the best and what we have now is the best for us for this very moment.

Insya Allah, one day, we will be granted with better life, better love life. Love is about sacrifices. Only strong ones can love hard and I believe we are included. I believe that one day, we will settle down in a nice small house and live happily ever after. Small problems on the way will not matter.

Wassalaam. :)

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10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves | Assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh. As usual, it has been so long since I last updated this blog. I hope someone somewhere is missing my writing. You know what, I am married!!! Yeahhh!!! I am a wife who has a husband who accepts me as his wife. I am so grateful as once, I thought nobody will love me, what more takes me as his responsibility to shoulder to Jannah. 

I am quite proud with myself. Hahaha..

Yesterday, when I was browsing through my Facebook, I found this quotes by FilmyGyan. I just found this Fanpage and I like it so much. It is as if the admins can read my mind better than me myself. Thanks!!! So, I write this blogpost hoping than guys would know what they can actually do to buy a girl's heart without buying her new clothes or handbags. They are free of charge!!! 

But, they need courage and strong will of wanting to show love on daily basis. :)

10. Giving out his jacket when she is feeling cold. 

My husband gave me his sweater before I got into the bus to go home. Thanks abbang. :')

9. Taking her to his family dinners and friends' party. 

Thanks abbang for bringing me to your house to be a part of your family. I love going to your friends' weddings too. Hahaha

8. Loving her family the way he loves his.

Thanks abbang for your efforts to show you love my family as yours. You give presents and stuff. I truly appreciate them. :')

7. Looking into her eyes while conversing.

This you always do! Hahaha

6. Kissing her forehead instead of lips.

Honestly, I love both ways. Need to improve on this. Muahahaaa

5. Allowing her to pursue her dreams and supporting her always.

I am so lazy to study and you are the one who encourage me to continue. How can things get sweeter?? :D

4. Talking more than her when they are together.

Okay, this is hard. Can you? Will you? I might like this but, you should know that I really talk a lot. Hehehe

3. Sharing the inner most deepest secrets with her without any fear.

I really hope you do this so that I do not need to doubt you. So that I feel important enough not to worry about you doing this with someone else. Will you? :)

2. Giving her time from his busy schedule even if it means as less as 5 minutes.

You are busy I know. I am demanding I know. At least 5 minutes a day. Is it okay for you? It is just enough for me abbang. :)

1. Accepting her the way she is without asking her to change.

Will you?

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What I Want From My Man

What I Want From My Man | Assaalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh. I feel very terrible today. How can a girl be willing to ride my fiancee's car from Johor to Kelantan back and forth. It is an 8-hour journey for one way. Being alone in a car for 8 hours. How can I accept this? I am crying hard and I don't think my man will understand this more than you do.

You will understand me right? I never ask for so much. I dont mind having small rings for my engagement and my wedding but him. He is all I ask for. Him, only for me. Even though I know nothing bad is happening, my heart is still aching. :'(

1. I want him to accept me for who I am
• no matter how fat or skinny, dark or fair, clean or dirty, short or tall, clumsy or graceful, clingy or independent.
2. I want him to look at my camera, smiling at me.
• when I look at the pictures, I envision him smiling at me with tender and love. I will always be reminded on how warm our love has been.
3. I want him to call me at least 3 times a day
• morning, day and night. every time he calls, he shows he remembers me. When he tells stories when talking to me, I know he is missing me
4. I want him to persuade me when I am mad
• persuading me shows how much I matter to him. Wanna feel important and worth spending time with, spending time for.
5. I want him to have only one girl, that is me. 
• no girl is allowed to have everything i want from my man. Me only. Only me. I wanna be the only one. A girl taken care of because his love is only for me

Girls, please don't break other girls' hearts. It is never a good thing to do. It is as if you are hurting yourself.

T_T

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