2 Types of Loneliness

2 Types of Being Lonely | Assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh. As you all know, i have been married for more than 3 months now and I am still trying to adapt myself to being a wife. It is some kind of transition period for me. It will be a long one as I live far away from my husband.

It is you who will determine the type of loneliness you will get. It depends on you too to get rid of it

We rarely meet and each time we meet it will so short that that adapting process does not seem to complete. Then, we separate. Yes, it is true. The loneliness when being married is far worse than being single and feeling lonely. But, the longing is what makes us still holding on. 

I know and I can feel deep inside that we are getting strong everyday. As well as our love for each other. The longing makes each meeting becomes precious. The longing is what makes we know that we truly love each other. Trust, the most important element here.

Then, we meet again. Each time, we will start anew. It is difficult but, still bearable. Perhaps, that keeps boredom away. It is Allah's way to maintain our relationship. I believe in Him. I know, He will give us the best and what we have now is the best for us for this very moment.

Insya Allah, one day, we will be granted with better life, better love life. Love is about sacrifices. Only strong ones can love hard and I believe we are included. I believe that one day, we will settle down in a nice small house and live happily ever after. Small problems on the way will not matter.

Wassalaam. :)