Tuesday, 3 November 2015

How To Buy A Girl's Heart? These Kinds of Words Will Do

The words my husband used to use when buying my heart. He succeeded. :)

How To Buy A Girl's Heart? These Kinds of Words | Assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh. Once upon a time, there lived a Girl far far away in the woods, waiting for her prince charming to take her away. One day, the Prince did come and said,'Will you marry me, Princess' and she answered,'Yes!' They lived happily ever after.

Cliche? Yup. Women are easily bought with words. It is a bitter truth for me as a girl and being a girl myself, I just cannot deny this fact. Sweet words, love words, comforting words are the kind of stuff that really weaken us. We can say, words that most of the time can be lies and the beginning of heart breaks, just break our walls. They are that strong and that strength is in your hands, Guys. 

As guys have known this fact for ages, use it wisely and words from you can make your girl keeps smiling like an idiot throughout the day. Just be kind and you will get her. How to be kind? As good as good words can be, bad words can cause the biggest problem too. Be wise. Be thoughtful. Sweet words, encouragements, compliments, smiles, laughs. They always work the best.

Just be kind with your words because harsh words, harsh sentences, high toned words, just blow this overthinking creature, Woman. True girls don't simply go for money especially nowadays when they definitely can afford their own living. Modern girls, strong ones, work hard to earn for their living. They just need, that one man, who when she looks at him, she knows smiling,

'This man is kind enough to take care of myself, my heart, my mind and my feelings, forever'.

Be kind to her. She will be far kinder to you. Believe me. I am Woman.
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Friday, 16 October 2015

2 Types of Loneliness

2 Types of Being Lonely | Assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh. As you all know, i have been married for more than 3 months now and I am still trying to adapt myself to being a wife. It is some kind of transition period for me. It will be a long one as I live far away from my husband.

It is you who will determine the type of loneliness you will get. It depends on you too to get rid of it

We rarely meet and each time we meet it will so short that that adapting process does not seem to complete. Then, we separate. Yes, it is true. The loneliness when being married is far worse than being single and feeling lonely. But, the longing is what makes us still holding on. 

I know and I can feel deep inside that we are getting strong everyday. As well as our love for each other. The longing makes each meeting becomes precious. The longing is what makes we know that we truly love each other. Trust, the most important element here.

Then, we meet again. Each time, we will start anew. It is difficult but, still bearable. Perhaps, that keeps boredom away. It is Allah's way to maintain our relationship. I believe in Him. I know, He will give us the best and what we have now is the best for us for this very moment.

Insya Allah, one day, we will be granted with better life, better love life. Love is about sacrifices. Only strong ones can love hard and I believe we are included. I believe that one day, we will settle down in a nice small house and live happily ever after. Small problems on the way will not matter.

Wassalaam. :)
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Tuesday, 4 August 2015

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves | Assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh. As usual, it has been so long since I last updated this blog. I hope someone somewhere is missing my writing. You know what, I am married!!! Yeahhh!!! I am a wife who has a husband who accepts me as his wife. I am so grateful as once, I thought nobody will love me, what more takes me as his responsibility to shoulder to Jannah. 

I am quite proud with myself. Hahaha..

Yesterday, when I was browsing through my Facebook, I found this quotes by FilmyGyan. I just found this Fanpage and I like it so much. It is as if the admins can read my mind better than me myself. Thanks!!! So, I write this blogpost hoping than guys would know what they can actually do to buy a girl's heart without buying her new clothes or handbags. They are free of charge!!! 

But, they need courage and strong will of wanting to show love on daily basis. :)

10. Giving out his jacket when she is feeling cold. 

My husband gave me his sweater before I got into the bus to go home. Thanks abbang. :')

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

9. Taking her to his family dinners and friends' party. 

Thanks abbang for bringing me to your house to be a part of your family. I love going to your friends' weddings too. Hahaha

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

8. Loving her family the way he loves his.

Thanks abbang for your efforts to show you love my family as yours. You give presents and stuff. I truly appreciate them. :')

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

7. Looking into her eyes while conversing.

This you always do! Hahaha

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

6. Kissing her forehead instead of lips.

Honestly, I love both ways. Need to improve on this. Muahahaaa

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

5. Allowing her to pursue her dreams and supporting her always.

I am so lazy to study and you are the one who encourage me to continue. How can things get sweeter?? :D

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

4. Talking more than her when they are together.

Okay, this is hard. Can you? Will you? I might like this but, you should know that I really talk a lot. Hehehe

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

3. Sharing the inner most deepest secrets with her without any fear.

I really hope you do this so that I do not need to doubt you. So that I feel important enough not to worry about you doing this with someone else. Will you? :)

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

2. Giving her time from his busy schedule even if it means as less as 5 minutes.

You are busy I know. I am demanding I know. At least 5 minutes a day. Is it okay for you? It is just enough for me abbang. :)

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

1. Accepting her the way she is without asking her to change.

Will you?

10 Adorable Things Guys Do Which Every Girl Loves

Monday, 4 May 2015

What I Want From My Man

What I Want From My Man | Assaalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh. I feel very terrible today. How can a girl be willing to ride my fiancee's car from Johor to Kelantan back and forth. It is an 8-hour journey for one way. Being alone in a car for 8 hours. How can I accept this? I am crying hard and I don't think my man will understand this more than you do.

what i want from my man

You will understand me right? I never ask for so much. I dont mind having small rings for my engagement and my wedding but him. He is all I ask for. Him, only for me. Even though I know nothing bad is happening, my heart is still aching. :'(
  1. I want him to accept me for who I am
    • no matter how fat or skinny, dark or fair, clean or dirty, short or tall, clumsy or graceful, clingy or independent.
  2. I want him to look at my camera, smiling at me.
    • when I look at the pictures, I envision him smiling at me with tender and love. I will always be reminded on how warm our love has been.
  3. I want him to call me at least 3 times a day
    • morning, day and night. every time he calls, he shows he remembers me. When he tells stories when talking to me, I know he is missing me
  4. I want him to persuade me when I am mad
    • persuading me shows how much I matter to him. Wanna feel important and worth spending time with, spending time for.
  5. I want him to have only one girl, that is me. 
    • no girl is allowed to have everything i want from my man. Me only. Only me. I wanna be the only one. A girl taken care of because his love is only for me
Girls, please don't break other girls' hearts. It is never a good thing to do. It is as if you are hurting yourself.


Tuesday, 6 January 2015

A Tip For An Everlasting Love- The Power Of Throwback

A Tip for an Everlasting Love- The Power of Throwback | Assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakaatuh. A relationship never goes smoothly as imagined, as we want. There will always be ups and downs that will test us on our determination to hold strong to it. 

Eventually, time flies and things will go back to normal. It is just that; hold strong and never let go! That's it! I wanna tell you a secret of me maintaining my love relationship. Do spread to others so that they can maintain theirs too k. We all hope for an everlasting love, right?

My secret of holding strong to my relationship with my abbang is the power of throwback. You know throwback right? Throwback means valuing our old times, reminiscing them and smiling when they suddenly touch our mind and heart. What I can say, throwback is kind of my hobby because throwback:

1. reminds us of our sweet memories

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Throwback reminds us of our sweet memories. As normal humans, we tend to forget especially when we are so deeply indulged in anger. Sweet memories will lighten our head and calm us as we remember them. Always remember how the person we love has once been the cause of our smiles. :)

2. reminds us of promises made

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Promises are made to be kept, not to be broken. Please, promise things that you know you can and will fulfill. I am sure, all of us have promised our beloved to love till the end, to not let anything harm the relationship. Then, hold strong to it and never let go just because of small things crossing by! :D

3. reminds you of how much we love each other

Reminding ourselves how much we love each other is very important and vital. I always do this in the middle of chaos to eliminate all the negative things in my head. After all, most of the time, loving each other too much is actually the cause to the problems. So, be patient and remember! :D

4. reminds us of what you have been dreaming together

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The power of throwback is that it is capable of bringing back the dreams that we have been dreaming together. Dreams of being together to the end of the time, honeymoon beach, dream house up on the hill, number of kids and to live happily ever after. It will never be bad to remember all these!

5. reminds you of how hard you have tried to maintain your relationship

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Problems come and go. You should be so much experienced of dealing with them as it is not your first time. So, every time problem occurs, remember how much sacrifices and hurdles you have encountered to keep the relationship just come to that level. Hard enough to maintain it right???

Anger comes from the devil and why must we follow him??? Anger makes us lose all our senses and we tend to do things that we will regret for the rest our life. We don't want that to happen. Calm ourselves, breath in and out, perform istikharah, discuss with others, then only you decide.

That's all. May our love brings us all to Jannah. Amiin. :D
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